GIRLS' POSTS, DON'T GET IT TWISTED.

You maybe wrong...

Sarah was upset about a question asked by Frank, a guy she met on Facebook.

They've been friends for some years but they haven't been chatting frequently maybe due to mutual respect for each other or lack of interest as there are thousand other friends to chat with.

On a Friday evening, Sarah made a short post " I WANT SOMEONE TO DO IT WITH" with the hashtag FREAKY FRIDAY.

The post received some typical mixed reactions from friends, several others rain insult on her, labelling her horny woman, while others indicated interest without knowing the true message behind the post.

Trailing reactions drawn from the post made by Sarah got several visitors flooding her inbox with indication of interest, accusations and commendations for making such a daring statement.

One among the several messages Sarah got was a chat from Frank who applauded her for making such a bold statement.

Frank's chat with Sarah got a bit mutually conversational as it proceeds.

FRANK: Pretty... I am amazed by the post you made. It is something most girls won't do... I must say that you are bold and beautiful.

SARAH: Oh! Don't quote me wrong, it is nothing. It's just a way to express myself and perhaps draw up people's opinions on issues like that...

FRANK: That was out of the box and you just set the media space ablaze with that series of reactions.

SARAH: Well, it is our normal naija way of reacting to post of that nature. That's what you get when making such a post.

FRANK: Yeah! You are right. That's our way....

FRANK: Where are you now? Can we see?

SARAH: I am in Uyo.

FRANK: Same with me... So can we meet? I want us to get connected, I will pay you handsomely for your service.

At this point, Sarah perceived insult rather than a mere chat..

SARAH: What do you mean? I don't understand you.

FRANK: I mean how much do you charge?

SARAH: For what?

FRANK: Don't tell me you don't understand what I mean.. how much do you charge for s*x?

SARAH: Are you nuts? What has come over you? Don't provoke me.....

Sarah couldn't believe what she saw. Was Frank taking her as sex worker just because she made a post?

She blasted Frank for his insolence attitude and warned him never to try that rubbish again, and if that wasn't enough, blocked him from chatting with her.

******

To our guys:

Don't rush to a woman's inbox to disgrace yourself because of post or comments you see from on social media.

Don't misinterpret people's post

Not all girls are s*x workers.

Respect what is to be respected.

To our girls:

Know the post you make to avoid insult.

✍️ Patrick Ekong

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